How To: Argue
Blog Post 2
Arguments play an important role in our everyday lives. People
argue because they believe they know best. They can even be as small as a debate
with a friend over who would be a better addition to the soccer team. Notice
the word debate, in the previous sentence. An argument consist of something
that is DEBATABLE & two opposing sides. In order to have a strong argument
you need two things: Strong evidence for your views and strong evidence against
the other side. Being able to support your side is very important but the inability
to discover why the other side is “wrong” weakens your argument.
Throwing your views/opinions at someone is not an effective
way to argue. In fact, it’s not even technically considered an argument at that
point. The best way to have an argument is to calmly discuss both sides
allowing each side to state their main point (in an essay this would be
considered the thesis). Listening is a key part in having a good/positive way
of arguing. You should not only just state evidence for your side but also you
should give them reasons to believe that you know best. This is the part of the
essay that is known as refutation of opposing arguments. I typically follow
this very closely when having an argument and I always make sure to allow the
other person to state their opinions.
Having a healthy argument consist greatly of listening and
calmly discussing it out with the other person. Having a healthy argument every
once in a while is actually a good thing! So go out there and share your believes
with everyone. If someone disagrees you’ll know exactly what to do!
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